“So much has changed. I loved someone a lot, and one day I woke up and I realized what moving on really is. There’s such a big difference between getting over something and getting through it. I got through with it all, but if he came up to me and told me that he sincerely loved me, I wouldn’t resist that. It’s funny how things work out right? You think you’ll be best friend with someone forever and one day you’re just not anymore. All I know for sure is that when you love someone, I mean truly love someone, whether it’s a friend or a boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever, you never stop loving them. Think about it. I’ve moved on, yes, but a part of me will always belong to him. I will always have that part of me that loves him.”—(via eletheowl)
“When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart. For as long as you remember me, I am never entirely lost.”—(via eletheowl)
“I don’t think I’m alone in this. The more I get to know other people, the more I realize it’s kind of everyone’s flaw. Staying exactly the same for as long as possible, standing perfectly still… It feels safer somehow. And if you are suffering, at least the pain is familiar. Because if you took that leap of faith, went outside the box, did something unexpected… who knows what other pain might be out there, waiting for you. Chances are it could be even worse.”—(via eletheowl)
“I don’t know what to say anymore. My mind runs blank every time I open up the page where I used to spill my heart. I used to have so much to say, now I can barely write a sentence. It’s you. You have the affect on me. You walked into my life, and I can’t find a place for you just yet. I’m lost for words, yet my heart is screaming with the things I want to say to you.”—(via eletheowl)
“Sometimes there is nothing to be said. Sometimes nothing should be said. I just want to find someone who won’t run away. Someone to look me in the eyes and tell me it’s okay that things don’t always go right. That this is how life works, and how it will always work. That it’s not going to be easy. Today, tomorrow, the next day, but it will somehow get better.”—(via eletheowl)
“Maybe I wasn’t asking you to love me, maybe I was asking you to understand, because for so long I’ve been hurt and for so long you’ve ignored it, and maybe it is bad timing, but maybe, I don’t care. I’ve been here all along just waiting, waiting for you to notice, waiting for you to care. Waiting for you to say that you’ve been waiting too and you haven’t and maybe you never will or maybe you’re afraid to. But it all hurts the same, and in the end, I’m the one that’s left broken and when I lay down to sleep, I’m still the one crying, so screw the bad timing. I’ve loved you then, like I love you now, like I probably always will.”—(via shiftcomma3)
“I was walking after a painful experience when someone came; he never left me when I needed him most. He stood by me all along. Then after all that has happened, I began to wonder. He did help me forget my sad story and yet he started another one.”—
“It is so damn hard to deal with emotions when I want to touch someone but I can’t. There’s nothing I can do about it. No matter how hard I try to distract myself. No matter how I try to smile and laugh it out it still comes to that point where I find myself alone even in a happy crowd. Hopelessly missing that one person I have been wanting so much.”—
“Do you miss him at the most happy and fulfilling times of your life? Just because you miss him when the world is quiet and you feel alone doesn’t mean you love him. You will miss anyone when you’re lonely. It’s when your life is going great and you still feel that ache in your heart because he isn’t there to see the genuine smile on your face and happiness in your life.”—(via eletheowl)
“You can’t resist him. He’s in your bones. He is your marrow and your ride home. You can’t avoid him, he’s in the air, in between molecules of oxygen and carbon dioxide. Only in dreams, I see what it means, reach out a hand, hold tight to his. But when we wake it’s all been erased, and so it seems only in dreams.”—(via eletheowl)
“To tell you the truth I don’t have much to offer. But I’ll still give you everything I’ve got, even if it’s barely a thing at all. I’ll give you late nights, long hugs. Someone to talk to, someone to care for, someone who will always be there. A hand to hold, somebody to lean on. And if that’s not enough, just know you have all of me. I hope that’s enough.”—(via mariekjen)
“Everyone has a love that they can’t forget. For me, it was him. I wasn’t going to sit there and quote poetry, or even doodle his name in hearts on all my papers. I simply accepted that things could not be and moved on. But there is always a constant wonder in the back of my mind that wonders if he ever thinks of me like I think of him.”—(via eletheowl) (via qinatthedisco)
So, I`ve had my fair share of heartbreaks, 1,2…4? But hey, I`ve realized so many things after these so I want to share them with you guys.
Crying is good. It does not indicate, whatsoever, that you are weak or pathetic. It indicates that you are human: that you feel pain and that you are alive. Crying is actually the first step of healing. Remember that to make room for smiles, you must cry you heart out first. Bottling up your feelings is never good since if you do so, you will lose yourself.
It is not the end of the world. As much as you want the world to vanish in front of your eyes or take you in like a super massive black hole, that`s never going to happen. There is life after heartbreak. Before you do something stupid or ask God to take you, remember that there are people out there who are going through so much more horrible, scary and painful things.
Music is one of the best forms of therapy. When you get your heart broken, music is going to be your best friend. Songs which used to make you happy before will make you cry like fcuk, that`s inevitable. But hey, at least you know that you aren`t alone. That when you listen to a certain song and you listen to the lyrics, you realize that someone gets you, that someone actually is going through/ has gone through the same thing as you.
Your family and friends will always be there for you. Even when your guy leaves you, they will always be there. So never take these people for granted. Don`t revolve your world around one person and forget that other people love you `cause when he does leave, you`re going to run back to them.
Never ever love anyone else more than yourself. Yes, it may seem selfless and good when you`re still in love. But, when you get your heart broken and you are left alone, you will only have yourself. So love yourself. More than anyone else.
Expecting things will lead you nowhere but misery. Face it, this is reality. As much as you want ‘that’ happy ending, he won`t always come back. So, don`t expect too much because when you do and your expectations aren`t met, you will just be miserable. So, just accept how things are.
You are busy but you are happy. When you keep yourself busy with your friends, studies, activities, etc, it`ll help you move one since it gives you less time to think and analyze things.
You deserve to be happy. You are beautiful, wonderful, sweet and caring. If he doesn`t see what he`s missing out on, then whatever, let it be. Someone out there does/will. You just haven`t met him yet.
Strength and happiness can be found within you. You have to pick yourself up. You can`t be miserable forever. There might be a lot of people who can help you find this but it is actually for you to decide if you want to be happy. Help yourself.
God will never leave you. Talk to Him when you feel that no one can understand what you`re going through. He does. And He will make things better. He is God, after all.
Moving on isn`t something you rush. Not because he`s moved on means that you have to. If you think you`re not ready yet, then don`t. It may take you weeks, months, even years. It really is a long, tiring process but eventually you will. It may seem hopeless but it isn`t. Trust me, it will all get better in time.
We sometimes really have to undergo through crap loads of pain and shit just to realize these things but it helps us to become better, stronger persons.
Everything happens for a reason, as cliche` as that may sound but it`s true. You may not know the reason now but one day, you will and all the shit and heartbreak hell you`ve gone through will be worth it, I tell you. Just think of this happy thought, everytime you get your heart broken, you are one step closer to finding ‘the one’ and we girls want that, right? ;)
“From the corner of my eye, I see a glimpse of you. My heart is just about to burst into butterflies, but my mind scolds and says “Control yourself. You know that this boy isn’t right for you anymore.”—(via mariekjen)
“About a year before my dog died, he started to go blind. When my cat realized this, she began helping him find his way by rubbing against his legs, running ahead of him, and meowing loudly so he could follow the sound of her voice. The love pets have not just for people but for each other GMH.”